The Kind of Mom I Want to Be (18 Gifts for My Children)
/Have you ever spent much time considering the legacy that you're leaving your children (and their children and their children)?
If you have younger children, you probably haven't. It wasn't something that was front of mind for me until I lost my own mom very suddenly. In the year that has followed, I've spent much time reflecting upon who my mom was, what she taught me, and—most powerfully—the legacy that she left us of hard work, perseverance, humility, humor, and a sacred regard for life.
As I've reflected upon every good gift that my mom gave my sister and me, it has cemented the value of the now in my mind. We don't like to ponder our own end, but losing a parent pushes it to the forefront of your consciousness. In the end, we cannot control the fact that we are but a vapor, but we do have the good gift of choosing WHO we want to be for our children and the gracious ability to intentionally cultivate an inheritance that has generational benefit for our great-great-grandchildren.
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