When You Need to Reset Your Mom-Mood

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When You Need to Reset Your Mom-Mood

This is a guest post contributed by Amber Palmer. You can learn more about Amber in her bio at the bottom of her post.

“Mom, I think your signature look is the side-eyed glare,” my daughter shared with me one day while we were getting ready to start school.

I chuckled at first. I wanted to brush it off as tween sass. But the more I thought about it, the more it bothered me to think that this was how my kids saw me.

As the day went on, I started to pay attention to my mannerisms—and sure enough, when my children asked me to do something for them or interrupted me in any way, my “signature look” showed up fast. Along with that side-eyed glare, I realized I had a deep sigh of annoyance to match.

I couldn’t shake the conviction: this was not love.
 This was a grumbling heart.
I was knee-deep in major “mom mood.”

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A FREE Skills + Activities Checklist For Your 2-5 Year Old

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A FREE Skills + Activities Checklist For Your 2-5 Year Old

What are some milestones that I need to look for in my child’s behavior or abilities?

  • How do I know he’s ready for school?

  • How long should she be able to pay attention?

  • How much time should we spend on “school”?

  • My child doesn’t do ________, is that ok?

  • What are some ways that I can engage my child in a meaningful way during our busy days?

These are all questions I’ve asked over the years and questions I hear daily from busy, concerned homeschooling moms who want to make sure they’re doing best for their child.

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How to Protect Your Time, Homeschooler

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How to Protect Your Time, Homeschooler

This is a guest post contributed by Lara Chomout. You can learn more about Lara in her bio at the bottom of her post.

When homeschooling was simply a dream, I imagined... well… that we would be home. I remember asking the worried questions about socialization and which curriculum would serve us best. From these questions, I learned about the world of homeschool community and all the wonderful things our local group had to offer.

So, of course, when we stepped into our first year of homeschooling, I added all the social things I could find. Wild + Free groups, co-ops (P.E. co-ops, presentation co-ops, I even started a weekly co-op with friends), and sports.

Everything we were involved in was wonderful. But I quickly learned I could not do all the things, homeschool my children, keep a house, and still be a present mom and wife.

People would constantly ask me how I could do it all. They were impressed with me—and the facade I had created. The reality? I wasn’t a very good mom at the time. My marriage was hurting. And honestly, I have no idea if my children were learning anything.

I was running on empty.
I had to let things go.

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Learning that Lasts - Simple Practices to Point Kids to Christ

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Learning that Lasts - Simple Practices to Point Kids to Christ

This is a guest post contributed by Leah Hudson. You can learn more about Leah in her bio at the bottom of her post.

I spend a lot of time thinking about how best to educate my children. Hours and hours are dedicated to simply planning the year ahead. Another immeasurable chunk of time is consumed actually carrying out those plans—reading, writing, discussing, reviewing. It is a lot.

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Three Things To Do While Waiting on Your Homeschooling Community

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Three Things To Do While Waiting on Your Homeschooling Community

This is a guest post contributed by Amber Palmer. You can learn more about Amber in her bio at the bottom of her post.

Five years ago, my husband and I made a decision to pull my daughter from a small private school and homeschool her. When we made this choice, I didn’t realize what a challenge it would be to find a homeschool community or just a few good friends for my daughter to connect with.

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Joy When Motherhood Feels Crushing

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Joy When Motherhood Feels Crushing

And we urge you, brothers, admonish the idle, encourage the fainthearted, help the weak, be patient with them all. See that no one repays anyone evil for evil, but always seek to do good to one another and to everyone. Rejoice always, pray without ceasing, give thanks in all circumstances; for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus for you. Do not quench the Spirit. Do not despise prophecies, but test everything; hold fast what is good. Abstain from every form of evil. Now may the God of peace himself sanctify you completely, and may your whole spirit and soul and body be kept blameless at the coming of our Lord Jesus Christ. He who calls you is faithful; he will surely do it. -1 Thessalonians 5:14‭-‬24 ESV

There it is. In black and white: Rejoice Always. Literally two words for an entire verse. That's how big and powerful and important. Rejoice always.

But how? I was awake the entire night rocking a teething baby. I walked downstairs to what looked like a war zone. No one had done their chores, a 2-year-old was running wild like a banshee, and the house reeked of overdue diapers to be trashed.

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Playing in Motherhood: Mother Culture

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Playing in Motherhood: Mother Culture

This is a guest post contributed by Lara Chomout. You can learn more about Lara in her bio at the bottom of her post.

The tick, tick, tick of the clock starts to drown out my thoughts.

I’m finally slowing down from the daily hustle of my routine of laundry and dishes, making meals, sibling arguments, spills- daily motherhood, really- and home education. The children are calm as we settle into our “quiet time” for the day - and perhaps now, for the first time, I can think.

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Home Education as Process

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Home Education as Process

This is a guest post contributed by Stephanie Radcliffe. You can learn more about Stephanie in her bio at the bottom of her post.
It’s far too easy to think that when our days don’t look smooth and seamless that we are failing or that we aren’t offering quality education to our children. Somewhere along the way, we got it into our heads that cooperative children, perfectly executed rhythms and routine, and checking off all of the boxes in our curriculum guides was not only the standard and evidence of success; but also whether we feel accomplished or not as homeschool mothers.


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